Touching and kissing your tummy

What will you ladies do if your in laws (mother) or your family members (female) keeps on touching and kissing your preggy tummy? I felt super uncomfortale and finally had to brace myself to tell them to stop doing that. Even my own mother dont do that to me.

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Personally, I dun mind at all and I love it! I feel that my baby is loved by many ppl and she will become a happy baby 🤷🏻‍♀️. Haha, but not the kissing part. I always tell female friend or colleagues that I want to spread the blessing and to touch my tummy if they want to get pregnant 🤭 coincidentally, 3 of my female colleagues got pregnant! 😂 If you dun like just tell them lah. That your belly is stretching and hence when they touch is very uncomfortable lor. Then like that ppl won't go touch one lah

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For me I will reject and say nicely to them because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Like we won’t anyhow go touch a woman who is not pregnant. So what gives them the impression that a pregnant belly is free for all to caress?

Super Mum

I’d tell them to stop. It’s your body, they should respect it. They’re not touching the baby, they’re touching your flesh. Good on you for having the courage to express your discomfort:)

Super Mum

I don’t mind them touching. But my husband female fren rub my belly super hard and fast (for luck). I feel Super uncomfortable

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Touching tummy is normal but not so for kissing tummy. I will be uncomfortable too and will tell them not to do so.

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I don't mind them touching but I do mind if they kiss???? lol ill tell them to nt do that

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For me, I will not allow ba. I feel abit strange for them to be doing that

i don't mind that they touch briefly but definitely not kissing..

I don't mind my family, but not my in law or cousins 😂😅

TapFluencer

Firmly tell them you don't like to be touch/kiss