What will you do if your MIL keep bad mouthed in front all her relatives but keep "saying" nice thing about you in front of your husband? I am really dreading of meeting them or attending any gatherings especially CNY gathering? Every year she will find a topic to complain about me and repeat it to everyone she meet in front of me. The story will repeat 30 times before a new topic again and again. Ending up me quarrel with my husband over it. My husband is not helping me at all but keep telling how ungrateful I am as his parents are so nice to me. However, I really can't take it anymore on my mil's craps.