Sometimes I don't understand why people are so hung up over the gender. I think we should just be grateful if the child is healthy and normal and raise them to the best of our ability. I have 2 boys myself and I get upset when I hear comments that I should try for a girl as they said girls will look after the parents in future. To me there's no difference and hope parents with boys do not think negatively and love them just as much.

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i have 2 boys. I am currently pregnant with 3rd boy, People thinks that i'm trying for a girl thus pregnant w 3rd one. What's wrong with having a boy? Yes it would be good to have a girl. But if not, as long baby is healthy and all is well. I don't understand why they would say girls will take care of parents better. I beg to differ. Having a girl will be having tonnes of worries - Their late nights - Their personal safety - The type of people they hang out with - Worse shot gun pregnancy. So much worries to handle for a girl. I will just tell people who comment me on having 3 boys. I would say. i have 3 body to protect me. I can train them to be helpful in house chores

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