Sometimes I don't understand why people are so hung up over the gender. I think we should just be grateful if the child is healthy and normal and raise them to the best of our ability. I have 2 boys myself and I get upset when I hear comments that I should try for a girl as they said girls will look after the parents in future. To me there's no difference and hope parents with boys do not think negatively and love them just as much.

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i have 3 boys and everyone is encouraging me for a gal. the irony here is that, when i was pregnant with my #3 at the age of 43, everyone made so much comments like 'wah u so old so brave ar' etc.. yet the same people are suggesting me to try for gal 😂😂😂