Sometimes I don't understand why people are so hung up over the gender. I think we should just be grateful if the child is healthy and normal and raise them to the best of our ability. I have 2 boys myself and I get upset when I hear comments that I should try for a girl as they said girls will look after the parents in future. To me there's no difference and hope parents with boys do not think negatively and love them just as much.

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truly agreed! now i have a boy. people kept asking me to try for a girl cos got companion. i am not being selfish but i really can't manage if i have 2 kids. moreover, we have to take into consideration - finances. i am also scared of another caesarean. being the only kid, he can grow up to be a better person.

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