I’m stuck at a marriage where I can’t move forward being his wife. I’m done. There’s no love, no kinship, no friendship, feeling suffocated. I want full custody of my 3.5yo and 9mo, since I’ve been the one taking care since born till now. Had enough of unreasonable tantrums and behaviour, disrespectful, lies. Felt that separation will be better for mental health, otherwise it’s so stressful to stay with someone who will lose his craziness at any one time when I have to deal with kids tantrums. I need a partner who can go through thick and thin with me, not a partner that will crush things even further when things gone wrong. Simply to say, rather than helping, he’s adding more stress. Scolding vulgar language in front of the kids umpteen times… no matter how much I tried to protect or educate…. He’s there to destroy everything…. I really wish that he can leave us alone….
We don’t kiss or have sex since pregnant till now, we don’t communicate anymore, whatever he’s doing outside I don’t know, where he goes I don’t know, what time he will be home I don’t know…. Our house is like a hotel….? Whenever he wants he just play with the kids, whenever he don’t want he just heck care or scold the kids? I’m so stuck…