hi, SAHM does your mil ask you for money every month? she ask me for money every month when hubby gets pay. Hubby bring home merely $1.5k.. We are staying with ILs. She never fails to ask me to give money go my FIL every single month even when I told her that we are paying bank loan of $300 every month. Plus Minus expenses, we really have nothing left. So my parents always help me out by giving me money and all. But my parents never ask money from me before even though they help us every month. I feel that it is unfair if I give my ILs but not my parents.. What do you think?

Maybe get your hub to talk to your mil about the financial situation. Some time IL doesnt know how well paid or not so well paid their kids. Once they know their kid not doing well they maynpt ask moneyfrom their own kid anymore. But since you are staying with them it make sense to give them a little allowance to pay for things like household expenses and utility bills. But if financially this is tough. Iwould suggest that u find a job too if both your inlaws are at home and can help u take care of kids. Cos after getting your own flat probably gonna use this money paid to your IL for your own hse expenses. Financially the burden will be even more if they require your hub to continue give them allowances for their daily expenses given that they have paid so muchto raise your hub since young.