Recently, I had a subtle displeasing incident where I was planning to make a trip to my brother's home and his wife did not respond well because she did not want me at their place because their 8 year old son's exams were going on. My husband, my daughter and I were planning to go for just one day, and that too on a weekend. I felt very bad when she did not showed any welcoming attitude which is why I cancelled my programme and my husband went as he had some official work. I felt hurt and I do not feel like talking on regular basis to her like I used to do. I am feeling I should maintain distance as she changed her attitude towards me for just a tiny thing. Do you think I am right?

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Certain situations cause visible changes. U can understand Clea why she was annoyed tht u went even her kids exams were on. I'm not blaming you and justifying her. I'm only saying tht don't change your outlook bcoz of 1 episode. Send her flowers and a card explaining in an assertive way tht u realize that she's hurt bcoz of this and tht u didn't mean to barge in during exam time. Saying sorry won't make u small. And u will also get to see how she responds. If she responds well, u hav won her, if not them she has lost u...

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Home Random Talk recently i had subtle displeasing incident where i was planning make trip brother home wife did not respond because did not want place because their 8 year old son exams were going husband daughter i were planning go day that too weekend i felt very bad when did not showed welcoming attitude which why i cancelled programme husband went had some official work i felt hurt i not feel like talking regular basis like i used i feeling i should maintain d