Am i being petty?

Recently i had a meltdown. Something triggered me reminding me of something terrible that happened in the past. I cried but I wiped the tears as quickly as I could. Instead of consoling, my husband confronted me for being that way. He knew i cried. My eyes were red swollen. The next day, he went to his sister place because she also had an episode. Except that she was crying and hitting her head against a pillow possibly talking to herself and someone had recorded her. Spent the entire day there trying to console her. I may not act like the sister but i also do have the same thing happened to me just that nobody recorded it. Am i being petty for being emotional thinking he doesn’t care about me? A lil context - sister is an adult same age as me, doing well. Just that she deals with stress differently by screaming shouting banging head i deal with it by crying in silent by concealing it, nobody would even know i am hurting.