Girl friend or girlfriend?

My partner has this girl he keeps going to when he has problems. I wouldnt have a problem with that usually but he goes to this girl more than me. Is it normal for guys to have this kind of a relationship with another girl?

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No....dati ung partner ko may "girl friend" bago pa maging kami pero... nung kami na pinalayo q na xa dun kc hnd q feel... bakit? May nkpag sb sakin na kaibigan q na co-dancer nya un nung collage at tinuturo nung girl na crush nya ung partner q...👏👏👏8 years na silang magkaibigan that time pero kami nmn ng partner q mga 10 years na magkakilala nun....nung hnd na minessage ni partner tong girl imissyou ng imissyou 😑 buti nalang masunurin partner q ako ang pinili hnd nya nirereplyan sa fb... ako ang nagrereply inaaway q hahahahaha... tapos binilan ko sya ng bagong sim... hnd lang isa close nyang girl friend, marami... pinalayo q lahat bago pa kami mag 1 year non... dahil ayoko tlga ng ganung set up at selosa ako.... subukan nya kakong replayan un at malaman ko iiwan ko tlga xa(alam nyang sa ugali ko eh gagawin q tlga sinabi ko) 4 years na kami, buti hnd na yan issue samin^^ ang sinusumbat nya nun sakin dahil pinalayo q mga kaibigan nyang babae kaya wala xang masabihan ng problema pag magkaaway kami... good thing naisip nya na marami din xang kaibigan na lalaki (ung iba classmate namin ng collage sa engineering) na mas may matitinong pag iisip. Mga lalaking responsable sa pamilya na pwede nyang makausap^^

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Nope sis, maybe you need to consider the fact na what if ma feel ni hubby mo na buti pa tong si "girl?friend" andyan lagi when i need someone to talk to. What if ma attach na si hubby mo sknya to the point na mas hinahanap nya un kesa sayo. I've been there sis, nalaman ko nalang na twing nag-aaway pala kami ni hubby (bf ko palang sya nun) sa workmate na girl pala sya nag oopen up. Which is not good for me. Kase magiging comfortable si hubby sknya. So bago paman magkaroon ng feelings na involve nag move nako to make sure na hanggan dun lang yun.

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No. He should trust you more, if not, learn how to. If he respects your feelings, he will voluntarily distance himself from his friend and he will make sure he shares things with you. Little secrets can grow into a bigger one that may ruin relationships. If he will not do it, talk to him. If he doesn't want, well that's a warning sign to leave the relationship!

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Any Interaction to other girls is not quiet normal sis lalo na kung committed yung partner mo sayo .. tsaka dba dapat kayo ang mag usap kung may problema sya kayo dapat mag sulosyon . There's no reason para sa iba nya ishare lahat ng problems nya .. I think may something yan sila sis , may karapatan ka sis mag tanong sakanya . Confront mo para malaman mo totoo

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I think, friends with benefits pwede pa. Kung may friend man na girl ung partner mo dpat alam naman nila ilugar lalo na at may asawa na ung guy. My husband does have a friends boys or girls but he doesn't run to them when he is in trouble or problems. Kaming dalawa ang nag uusap eversince mag gf/bf pa kme. Sakin lang tlaga sya nagsasabi.

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For me, it's not right mommy.. Coz in the very first place, u are both committed with each other and at the same time, its a Girl.. If there are issues in life, the first person he had to speak to is You. Ur partners unless, his not really into you to open up him selves.. Try to talk to him mommy to ease ur thoughts. 😊

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ask him bakit ganun po. kasi dapat po kayo ang magpartner sa lahat. kayo po dapat ang unang magbestfriend ni hubby mo. make him feel that sis. maging komportable kau sa isat isa. and tell him kung ano ang nafifeel mo towards sa closeness nila nung girl.. para marealize nia ano ang mali bakit nararamdaman mo yun sis. 😊

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Not normal. Isn't it weird na nandyan ka. Bakit sa iba pa sya magsasabi ng mga problema nya? Talk to him about this. Ask him kung bakit dun sya sa girl na yun pumupunta instead of you. Ansakit nyan sa damdamin sis. Ngayon pa lang i-clear mo na yang issue na yan.

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hindi. ganyan yung kaklse ko. nakikita ko kasi sila nung girl laging nag mmcdo then close ko.naman si guy kaya tinanong ko siya kung girlfriend niya yon sabi niya hindi daw super duper mega over best friend niya lang daw. pero ang totoo girlfriend niya pala.

Never normal. If you know your friend is already in a relationship, that friend should respect boundaries, if not.. that person wasnt just a friend to begin with, it’s more like a friend with benefits.