stop at 1. normal?
Is it normal for me to conclude that I should stop at only one child? Cause my husband believes 1) that preggies should learn to control their cravings and shouldnt be be entertained. 2) mummies post and pre natal depression does not exist; as they are not closed with their relationship to God? 3) child is forever clingy to mummy, and daddy feels that nothing can be done. Thus he cannot try to make the child involved with his presence.
For this case. Yes u shld stop for only one child. As ur burden will be heavy if ur husband mindset never change
You should stop at one child and remove ur husband from your life.
Ur husband mindset needs to be changed or go for some counseling.
Yes, stop at 1 if your husband continues to have this mindset.
Tell your husband to get pregnant instead.😡
if this is the case, yes. 1 child is enough.
Pretty normal.
The real issue here is his mindset that needs to be changed. He needs to understand the responsibilities of being a father and not just sweep things he has not experienced or did not go through as non-existent. How convenient it is to come up with such excuses so that everything is the Mother’s responsibility. Being parents to a child or children is the joint responsibility of both. If he does not understand that then I’m sorry to say he does not deserve to be a father.
Read moreHm.. Personally I feel “family” involve everybody... so mummies and daddies both have to do their parts as Parents to their children, not only mummies... You may like to talk to your husband, if it doesn’t work, perhaps both of you may like to attend prenatal/pregnancy/family planning/family seminars/talks or family counselling together, to make your husband understand his role as a Father too.
Read moreSorry to say but your husband's theory is bullshit. Of course it takes two in a team, cannot just the mummy do everything then the husband do what? Make babies only? Lol 1) cravings comes naturally. Some can control and some cannot. Same goes with how pregnancy is different with individuals 2)post natal and pre natal depression is a real thing. It's stupid to think how one is not close to god and that's why they have this depression. You can have a great rship with god and god still give you s***, that's just how life works. You win some and you lose some 3) husband play a freaking important role. I quote, "A FREAKING IMPORTANT ROLE". They MUST give support to the wife. We bear the child in our stomach for 9 freaking months, they should give us a trophy for doing so. It's up to you on how many kids you want. Some would love to have more kids and some only want 1 but never because of these reasons. You should totally speak to your husband about this.
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