stop at 1. normal?

Is it normal for me to conclude that I should stop at only one child? Cause my husband believes 1) that preggies should learn to control their cravings and shouldnt be be entertained. 2) mummies post and pre natal depression does not exist; as they are not closed with their relationship to God? 3) child is forever clingy to mummy, and daddy feels that nothing can be done. Thus he cannot try to make the child involved with his presence.

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The real issue here is his mindset that needs to be changed. He needs to understand the responsibilities of being a father and not just sweep things he has not experienced or did not go through as non-existent. How convenient it is to come up with such excuses so that everything is the Mother’s responsibility. Being parents to a child or children is the joint responsibility of both. If he does not understand that then I’m sorry to say he does not deserve to be a father.

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