stop at 1. normal?

Is it normal for me to conclude that I should stop at only one child? Cause my husband believes 1) that preggies should learn to control their cravings and shouldnt be be entertained. 2) mummies post and pre natal depression does not exist; as they are not closed with their relationship to God? 3) child is forever clingy to mummy, and daddy feels that nothing can be done. Thus he cannot try to make the child involved with his presence.

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Sorry to say but your husband's theory is bullshit. Of course it takes two in a team, cannot just the mummy do everything then the husband do what? Make babies only? Lol 1) cravings comes naturally. Some can control and some cannot. Same goes with how pregnancy is different with individuals 2)post natal and pre natal depression is a real thing. It's stupid to think how one is not close to god and that's why they have this depression. You can have a great rship with god and god still give you s***, that's just how life works. You win some and you lose some 3) husband play a freaking important role. I quote, "A FREAKING IMPORTANT ROLE". They MUST give support to the wife. We bear the child in our stomach for 9 freaking months, they should give us a trophy for doing so. It's up to you on how many kids you want. Some would love to have more kids and some only want 1 but never because of these reasons. You should totally speak to your husband about this.

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