Need to understand men. Questions. Do you "report" to your Wife your whereabouts? Do you let her know if you're going home late? And tell her the reason why. Do you go drinking without telling? Do you work till very late go home just shower and sleep and skip talking to your Wife? Even though she's awake you just do your own thing. Is it married life about doing your own thing and I do mine? I know this is very common in married life. Communication break down. But is it too much to know his whereabouts? At least I won't be at home worrying right? He just don't get it and ask me to stop asking. He will only tell me coming home or going out. That's it. I feel sad for other women last time, now I feel sad for myself as I've never imagine this will happen to me. Ladies, please advise whether you all care so much? Will ask in detail what the Husband is doing? How you all managed to don't care at all?

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My husband will always inform me if he is coming late due to meeting or business networking. I don't need to know where he is but I told him he need to stay contactable for emergency. My husband normally prefer to come back home for dinner so I will prepare dinner for him and let him catch up on his show for an hour before we talk about kids, his work or plan for weekend. Nowadays, my girls are bigger they are the one who will call their daddy to demand and know where and what is he doing. So I don't need to call at all. :-)

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7y ago

I must learn how to cook! Sounds like your Husband is quite a family-oriented person. Hope my LO faster learn how to talk, let her go pester her daddy. 😂