Need some tips or advice... My husband is a wonderful father, he is not the patient kind but when my dau arrived in this world, he improved on his patience towards her. However, the dating feeling that I used to have even though I am married for 8 yrs diminished when my daughter was born. He is not willing to go abroad without my daughter even though my daughter will be in good hands. He wants to see her everyday. I really tot men would like a break too.... So my question is, I know I can't get to him to reignite our spark we had so I need to change my thinking since I knw I can't change his. How do I make myself feel better?

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It's beautiful to have a dedicated husband who loves the child you and him created. Honestly, the dating feeling will dwindle a bit but won't be for long. Just need to find time to share with him, that time will belong to you. Cook his favorite dishes, watch a movie after LO slept. Enjoy watching your LO grow up with him, this is the time that is precious too.

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5y ago

When LO sleeps, he wants "him" time more than "our" time. I am not complaining tht he can't have his time... but when he is sleepy he expects to be given head massages to have a good night's sleep. But I am tired too. 😥