proud young mummy

Well they're not your true friends. Now a days, 20years old is para sa iba masyado pang bata para magka anak. Im actually 26years old and my friends are beyond excited ng nalaman nila na buntis ako, they even offered to help me whenever magka financial problems ako. I know you're young, but they should be happy for you. Nasa tamang edad ka na. And maybe you should find friends na mature enough to understand your situation especially magiging nanay ka na. Be wise in choosing God Parents para sa anak mo lalo't ganyan pala mga friends mo.

May mga ganan talagang tao. Mas better kung pili lng tlga yung pagsasabihan momsh. Pero the good thing is jan mo makikita mga tunay nilang kulay. Hindi lahat ng tnuturing mong kaibgan is maiintndhan ka especially sa mga ganang situation. Nung first time na nlman ko na preggy ako, sa friends ko ako una nagsabi at narealize ko din na sana hindi nalang, iniiwasan ko nlng sila ngayon kasi mas lalo lng ako madedepressed. Godbless momsh! Positive vibes lang 🤗

Never let them do that to you. Di nila alam pinagdadaanan ng isang single mom. And coming from a friend?? That's what not you called "friend". A friend will bring encouragement to you not like that. I'm an degree holder, nakapagwork sa local government and experienced being an OFW. Having an unexpected baby is a blessing. Wala yan sa pagiging edukado or what nasa kung gaano ka kamatured ihandle situation mo. Leave those people pulling you down.

Na-trigger ako dito gusto ko magsabi ng masasamang mga words 😂 Who are they to say you're not a mom (yet) if d pa born si baby? Napatoxic niyang taong yan and they are not your friend/s. Definition lang nila ng mother is if anjan na ang baby, nahahawakan na? No. Wrong. The moment na may nabuo, mom ka na. And we all know that. Remove toxic people from your life, please. D rin nila deserve ma meet ang angel mo (:

Sis, thats not a friend. Not your real friend at least. Dapat supportive lang. And 20 ka na, thats not too young. My mom was 19 when she had me, and guess what? She's a successful nurse na earning 6 digits overseas. Magtiwala ka lang sa sarili mo. 20's is an early age para masabi mo yung future ng isang tao. Basta may pangarap ka lang, plus sipag at tyaga mairaraos din yan. Stay away from negative people like that "friend."

Tingin ko kaya nasabi nila yan kasi mejo pasaway ka? Naive? Or they know you too well kaya ganyan. I dont know. Pero friends should support each other. Pero kung ganyan sila sayo maybe you are in the wrong group. Iwasan mo na sila. Sila lang ang mag cacause ng stress mo habang buntis ka. Enjoyin mo na lang yung acceptance ng partner at family mo sa pregnancy mo. And if you can, still pursue your dreams. 💗

They don't know what they're saying coz di pa nila naexperience. That kinds of friends are not keepers hun. They're supposed to be making you feel good even though, you got pregnant at a young age. They're supposed to support and guide you through thick and hin. I mean that's what friends are for. Same as I, I'm 20. Pregnant. But my friends are greatful and excited for me. Well, except for my parents. 😁

I was 21 when I got pregnant. Unplanned too. But I don't regret anything. Kahit pa medyo nadelay ng konti ung plano ko for myself. I know I can still achieve it. Kasama baby ko. Getting pregnant earlier than what the society expects us to be does not make us any less of a woman. Now, I can't imagine life without my kiddo. Hayaan mo yang 'friend' mo. His argument is invalid. Haha. Stay blessed!

Don't mind them. There's nothing wrong about having a baby. It's a blessing na maaga ibinigay sa iyo o sa iba mang nanay. Just always remember that you are fortunate because God gave you the opportunity to become a Mom. And he believes that you will nurture your baby with love and care. ❤️ P.S Sobrang saya once na nakasama mo na ang baby mo. Lalo na kapag nakikita mo dya nag smile🥰.

I hate say this but if they're putting you down instead of building you up, I don't think you can them friends. We all have different paths to take. They're NOT better than you just because they're not yet pregnant or don't have kids this early. Again, kanya kanyang timeline yan. Stay away from people like that. Keep your head up, and enjoy your journey, mama! Congratulations!