New Daddy's Woes!

My wife just gave birth one month ago and I feel like I don't have a life anymore! I want my guys' night out and soccer time with my buddies. Everything is about the baby now. Is this it for me? How do I tell my wife I need some me time without upsetting her?

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Communication is very important between both , be honest with your wife, perhaps things may turn out even better after being honest. being fair, your wife too deserve her me time as well.

by posting this you already upsetting her. imagine your wife with her 9months bump. just be patient. till everything go well. your baby is important in this case. . im sure one day you can adapt with this new family life.

And what is the purpose of getting married? Just to f**k around? NO. You're a daddy now. So, you really need to take care of those wonderful people, both your wife and the baby.

you know, whatever you say like sugar coated lips? she'll be upset and hurt by you. both of you made it, why dont you accept the truth that being a parent is being less of you but more to your kid?

Think about her also Stop being selfish She have more responsibility Basically her personal life ends here M a mother of 2 year N i feel same or more like u But u need to love her Keep her imp N she will turn to u

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Your baby is still one month old why don't you try to enjoy your time together with your baby for a meantime and then maybe after 3 months try to open this to your wife in your most gentle way so she will not be upset.

you supposed to be a man of the house take care of your baby its good to have some time away but your wife and your baby needs you your baby supposed to come first and some times a baby needs a bond between you and your wife

remember this tym its not u anymore its about your family as well. So if you are enjoying that stuff you dnt think of that me tym but u think more of spending it with ur new baby and your wife.

whoooaA😮.. your wife needs ME TIMe too!! she need it as much as you do 🤣 being a mom is like "No MORE TIME for REST"😒 24/7 OnLinE 😏 bye bye teenage life.. grown-up men!!!

As of now, just be there for her. She needs you the most. She’s suffered for at least 9+ months and all we (fathers) can do is to give the moral support to our partners.