New Daddy's Woes!

My wife just gave birth one month ago and I feel like I don't have a life anymore! I want my guys' night out and soccer time with my buddies. Everything is about the baby now. Is this it for me? How do I tell my wife I need some me time without upsetting her?

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Everyone needs some down time. Perhaps can ask your parents in law to help watch baby for one night and you guys have a date night. Then you won't upset her too as she probably needs a break from e baby as well!

itz time for u to be a real hero dude... im going through exactly things u said.... but everytime u wanna hav me time thing... go stare ur baby n ur wife... they need u more bro.

I'm sure your wife is also having a hard time because she also wanted to have her me time. But you can simply talk to your wife tell her what you're thinking.. It's all about the communication

anda adalah ayah kepada bayi yang dilahirkan oleh isteri anda..apa salahnya lebihkan masa untuk mereka..dalam tempoh inilah isteri anda memerlukan anda..berada disisi mereka lebih menyeronokkan..

ur a father now... It's no longer about you or your wife, help your wife love your baby dnt miss out on it life is to short... there will be more guys night out and soccer time...

family first. your wife changed her lifestyle as well. baby grows so fast, enjoy the time to cuddle your baby and kiss the chubby cheeks. you can go out sometimes with your friends naman but not everyday..

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Just tell her! But be prepared to accept and make compromises if she asks to have me time for herself, too. If you think you lost your social life, imagine what it must be like for her.

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Dont you think your wife misses the outside too? She is also sacrificing for your family. Hope you appreciate and think about that. She needs you right now

Accept responsability dude. Selfish to the hilt, its over for childishness. You need 7 children like me. i even got a boy at 66 years old. Kids are a blessing & more fun.