New Daddy's Woes!

My wife just gave birth one month ago and I feel like I don't have a life anymore! I want my guys' night out and soccer time with my buddies. Everything is about the baby now. Is this it for me? How do I tell my wife I need some me time without upsetting her?

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If you missed your boys night out how about your wife. Think before you action as this is unfair to her. In the 1st place why do you want to have a baby?

The fact that you feel responsible to take care of your baby is great enough. some guys just don't change at all. I think she'll understand your need too. Just talk to her

U have no right to complain that's what you did so take the consequences. Think also about ur wife sacrifice. #Godbless Love ur wife and baby.

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You can offer to trade it with her. For example for one day you take care of your newborn yourself and your wife go out relax. Then one night your wife will do one for you ;)

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Can u be patient for atleast 6month. Atleast ur wife recovered healthy enough fom giving birth your child. then you will get ur life back..

U need to understand ur wife have new person at home ur baby always baby take too much time special night tray to help ur wife nd be patient 😉

Coming from a woman.. find you a sitter.. Let her have a nail/spa day or girls night while you chill with the guys.. badaboom.. badabing... everyone is happy.

Just tell her 💯 explain to her how you feel or take turns caring for y’all baby that way y’all both have time for yourselves it’s fair for the both of you

Nothing wrong with need a me time, schedule it with your wife, sooner or later she's going to be needing hers too. It's normal for a healthy mind

You have a wife and a child yet you think about your life and night out with friends? Wth. You shouldnt get married and have a child in the first place🙄