My husband loves our two daughters very much...but the thing is, he's not their father. Should I tell him?

How is it possible not to have not just one but two kids from some other man and not your husband, and not him having any inclination about this? I mean one can stray and it can happen once but twice, I fail to understand? If you took the decision of bearing two kids from other man than your husband means that you loved the other man, so why did you not leave him and went with the man whom you loved? It must be so difficult to live in such a scenario where you are cheating your husband every single minute. Now, that you have two kids and he still hasn't come to know the truth, and if you think he wouldn't come to know ever, then in my opinion you should stay mum. The revelation of truth is going to affect your relationship for the worse and never know how he would take it with kids as well. May be seeing them would each time make him feel hurt and pinch his male ego, and also make him feel stupid, as how he could not see anything. I suggest, move on with life. When you could have two daughters without him having any inkling and till now you could have the heart to hide it, continue. Truth will only spoil relationship and his bonding with the kids. Be nice to him and loyal too in future, probably this will be an atonement for you.
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