Mummies pls advice me. I am relli veri depressed. I had a shortgun marriage. Kena pregnant before I marry hubby. I was thinking to abort or maybe have the baby but without him, but he convince me to get married cause he both love me and the baby. But the other day I was on his Facebook and I saw his message to his old fren where he say that I was pregnant, so marry me, bo pian. He say he actually want to oredi break up, but I got pregnant. So he just do the right thing. I am very hurt, because I never force him and he was the one kept bugging me to get married. I feel like just throw the divorce paper on his face. Any advice?

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I totally agree with what some of the mums have said. It was probably "bro" talk. Guys sometimes like to talk cock with one another and he may want to come across as macho. Does he treat you well? Do you love him? Do you feel that he loves you? If yes to all, please just let this pass and work on delivering a happy and healthy baby.

Darius Cheung

Erm stumbling into it.

9y ago

totally true. as a man i can testify - it is often regarded as embarrassing to admit to your other guy friends that you love your wife. so sometimes we talk s*** to look tough. you need to evaluate for yourself whether he truly loves you and not based on a single comment like this one

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Home Random Talk mummies pls advice i relli veri depressed i had shortgun marriage kena pregnant before i marry hubby i was thinking abort maybe have baby but without him but convince get married cause both love baby but other day i was facebook i saw message old fren where say that i was pregnant marry bo pian he say actually want oredi break but i got pregnant so right thing i very hurt because i never force him was kept bugging get married i feel like throw