Feeling frustrated

My husband has not gone back to his hometown overseas since the start of COVID almost 4 years. He asked me to go back and bring my 2 yr old along for one full week. Problem is normally when I am working my mum takes care of my girl and my husband can just take care of her like ensure she doesn't fall down or play with her. So i feel very stress to look after my girl mainly on my own for one full week. And when I tell him how come other guys can solo take care of their child and let the mum go out, he says that I was the one who wanted a child. I feel so helpless.