Sex after giving birth

Hello mommies. I just need some advice or maybe I just wanna hear some thoughts. I am almost 4 months postpartum. My husband just came back from work since he is a seaman we have been on a long distance relationship for months. The last time we have been together was on the day I gave birth. I know my husband misses me so much and part of it was having sex. (This is for open minded people only skip if you find this disturbing) Anyway, I have this problem and worries that results in me not properly participate in our love making. Idk but it is really painful when we do it, and I am really anxious because I kept thinking about the stitch I had when I gave birth normally. But it is really painful though even if we do long foreplays. To conclude this, recently he does not feel good about this. I think he might feel disappointed and it makes me feel so bad. I really do. It gave me anxiety I even cried idk why. I just wish it was easy just as like how we do it before I gave birth. If you have any advices on how to do it comfortably and properly please do comment. And if you have any advices on how should I feel and think about this, please do comment. Thank you!

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Sis,if talagang naiintindihan ka nya hnd ka nya pipilitin or sya na mismo kusang hnd makipag sex sayo kasi mga masakit pa. Oo nandun na tayo sa miss nyo isat isa,triny nyo kaso masakit tlaga. Seaman din boyfriend ko pero hnd sya ganyan. Mas worried sya sa condition ko na dpaat fully healed na muna.

3y ago

Thank you po! I tried po pero ewan sguro hindi pa po talaga ako ready kasi andun din yung natatakot ako na baka mabuntis agad. Parang manghihina ako tapos umiitim paningin ko pag nag attempt kami. I just hope maging normal na yung lahat para sa aming dalawa. Thank you po ulit!

Its better to talk with your OB about it. Para maadvisan kayo at mas maging komportable kayo mag make love next time.

3y ago

Okay po. Will try pero baka din kasi nangunguna yung anxiety ko. Natatakot din po kasi ako mabuntis ulit agad. Hayss