cranky fiancee

hey momma's i just need to rant & get some emotional support here.. lately my soon to be hubs has been feeling cranky due to work as he works every night for 12 hours + dieting to save up for some marriage funds when we're officially married & so tht he can fit better in his wedding outfit.. we usually vc each other in the morning when he's reached home to rest & have small talk with each other but like i said he's been cranky lately due to work/dieting so we don't really talk much & it kinda hurts to feel a little ignored by him then when i try to get some of his attention he flinches.. i know he doesn't mean to be tht way & maybe i'm being self centered right now as i'm not in his position i don't really work due to having some health issues like gastric, asthma & anaemia tht i'm afraid will affect my pregnancy.. Anyways i really wanna try my best to support + understand him better but being preggo makes me have mood swings & cry easily over little things so i need advice on how to cope with this situation as i really don't wanna be self centered only caring about my feelings but not my soon to be husband as i love him so much 🥹❤️#advicepls #firsttimemom

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hi there :) saw your post so i just had to comment ok , when I was pregnant with my first this really happens to me but nope ....we're not married we just decided get on our own ways . not to mention but please don't think too much okie , don't stress yourself out . with you being pregnant, im sure he will understand you . you cranky , him cranky , baby also cranky .. so just be happy :) just give and take je don't take everything to the heart , it's all the pregnancy hormones, moody ,clingy , wants attention you can't control but (I know) :) but if you want the relationship to work out better then try to control okie.. also with 12 + hours working tell me which human won't get tired or cranky ect .. try going out for a walk on his off days , talk things out , tell him how you feel , it's a healthier relationship if don't keep it to yourself :) even healthier for the soon to be born baby! :) stay strong and be safe always ;)

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