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Sharifah Nur Aidah, Singapore

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mama of one to my lil precious angel baby boy ❤️

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Doubts on starting back breastfeeding

I stopped breastfeeding for about 1 month+ ago & currently giving my child formula milk (i tried to breastfeed him for 4 days by pumping after giving birth to him) but my baby boy keeps on hitting his head against my chest & grasps my breast when i'm not fully dressed as if he wants me to breastfeed him coz i still have some milk in my body however i'm having doubts right now if i should as it's been awhile i stopped coz i can't get him to latch as my nipple is sunken in also i don't know what i can consume if i'm breastfeeding coz i don't want eat to affect him making my son fall ill so i'm really feeling a lot of doubt & guilt whenever he cries & does as described 😔❤️‍🩹❤️👶🏻#advicepls

You can try using nipple shields if u wanna try breastfeeding. :)

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Breast feeling heavy during pregnancy

hey mommies, i'm currently at 21 weeks + day 5 of my pregnancy, just got to know my baby's gender on 11 november tht it's a boy so feel really happy + excited for his arrival insyaallah on 30 march ayy hehe 🥰 anyways tht's not the topic today coz like stated my breasts have been feeling really heavy these days not sure when it started while pregnant so just wanted to ask/confirm if it's normal for me to be feeling tht way this early even tho i've google searched about it & it says wht's shown in the pic below, honestly i don't mind feeling the heaviness on my breast coz as long as baby boy's healthy tht's all tht matters to me but sometimes it feels like a struggle to me when i sit up straight to eat or just simply sit straight so wanna know if there's any mommies out there other than me experiencing this tht's all & how can i cope with it 😅❤️🤰🏻

Yes nothing to worry about because of the reasons above. You can even see visible green/blue veins near your chest area because of the heavy milk production and causing your boobs to be big. Hence, it is recommended to get bra that's not tight and comfortable.

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baby concern

honestly my house is honestly a mess & i'm expecting my first child but have to stay apart from my fiancee.. he wants to take care of baby at his home when he/she is born but i don't know when i'll be able to visit baby & really wanna take care of precious angel every single day.. i have separation anxiety i don't wanna be away from my love ones for too long especially a child tht i'm carrying my womb for 5 months only 4 months left till i pop.. i feel sad right & don't know wht to do my house i'm living in is a mess.. it's hurting me just to think ahead right now of wht's going to happen 😔💔 #pleasehelp

Breastfeed and solely from the breast. Don’t pump so they don’t have excuse to seperate baby from you unless they have a way to only take your boob la. No one has the right to take away a child from their mother, especially newborns. They should be the one coming over instead. Stay strong!

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Minal Vaginal Bleeding After Sex

hi momma's, i need some advice.. last night me & my fiance had sex & he did finger me with his long unclipped finger nails then i felt some pain at my vaginal area afterwards when we we're done but it didn't hurt much just felt like a stinging pain at first but then when i went to pee & there was some old brown spots of blood on my underwear followed by minor bleeding when i touch my vagina tht seemed to last for about a min making me feel shocked till now then stopped.. also i worn a pad to sleep to monitor if there's anymore bleeding but there isn't anymore when i woke up this morning though i'm quite concerned.. Main Question Is Should I Go To Kkh Or Not? I just went to polyclinic to see if i can get myself checked coz my fiance recommends me to do so & since i have a cough i followed the yellow line for suspected covid patients but doc says tht they can't really do anything about it & tht i should go to Kkh.. So Should I? #pleasehelp I really need answers asap.. please reply!🥹

If you are feeling the persistent pain nor bleeding please get go to KKH immediately. And pardon me that if you are having sex, please clip those nails to avoid scratches at vaginal or vulva area. You will never know what causes the pain. It can be anything. Please be careful mummy.

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cranky fiancee

hey momma's i just need to rant & get some emotional support here.. lately my soon to be hubs has been feeling cranky due to work as he works every night for 12 hours + dieting to save up for some marriage funds when we're officially married & so tht he can fit better in his wedding outfit.. we usually vc each other in the morning when he's reached home to rest & have small talk with each other but like i said he's been cranky lately due to work/dieting so we don't really talk much & it kinda hurts to feel a little ignored by him then when i try to get some of his attention he flinches.. i know he doesn't mean to be tht way & maybe i'm being self centered right now as i'm not in his position i don't really work due to having some health issues like gastric, asthma & anaemia tht i'm afraid will affect my pregnancy.. Anyways i really wanna try my best to support + understand him better but being preggo makes me have mood swings & cry easily over little things so i need advice on how to cope with this situation as i really don't wanna be self centered only caring about my feelings but not my soon to be husband as i love him so much 🥹❤️#advicepls #firsttimemom

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I think you should let him know that dieting is not that important as u already like him as he is. Wedding dresses have many sizes. Why affect relationships because of size. Instead get into Healthy lifestyle together to have long term affects if weight is not in healthy range. U could prepare healthy meals for him to support his diet too.

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glass cuts/minor injuries during pregnancy

hi mommies, i need a quick answer i accidentally stepped on a piece of glass while walking & it lead to some minor bleeding tht isn't fully stopped/healed yet so idk do i need to consult a doctor? i'm really worried as i'm only 11 weeks pregnant & don't want anything to happen to baby 😥❤️

If bleeding doesnt stop then would suggest that you visit doctor to get it check and properly bandage. Might be deep cut that may require stitches. Dont worry it wont affect baby. But do visit doctor ASAP. GWS 😉

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Peeing myself

hi mommies, recently i felt like i peed myself wetting my pants leaving a big wet stain even though i just went to the toilet to pee so i wanna ask is it normal? i'm currently about 8 months & 5 days pregnant. i never felt like i peed myself throughout this first pregnancy of mine so can i get some opinions? 😅🥰

normal sis. I'm still at my 1st trimester and already peeing

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2nd hand smoking

My husband, father & oldest brother out of 3 siblings ( me included) are smoking, my hubby doesn't smoke around me much knowing i'm pregnant due wanting to keep our baby healthy but my dad & oldest brother keep smoking in the house & it's hard to avoid inhaling the smoke even though i try my best to cover my nose as a second hand smoker when my brother decides to sit in the living room & smoke because i sleep there as i have no bedroom of my own.. so is it safe for me & baby to be in this kind of environment? what can i do to avoid inhaling smoke from cigarettes?#advicepls #firstpregnancy

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you have no choice. either u force them to stop, go smoke outside the hse or find another place to stay..anw try to influence everybody to make a lifestyle change esp ur husb also..smoking is bad!

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Wisdom tooth removal surgery

Hi, first time soon to be mama of 1 in first trimester here just want to ask i'm gonna be undergoing a wisdom tooth removal on 8 sept due to the it being ingrown.. so just wanna know is it safe for pregnant mama to undergo it?

I would only do it if your ob/GYN is happy for you to do it

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