cranky fiancee

hey momma's i just need to rant & get some emotional support here.. lately my soon to be hubs has been feeling cranky due to work as he works every night for 12 hours + dieting to save up for some marriage funds when we're officially married & so tht he can fit better in his wedding outfit.. we usually vc each other in the morning when he's reached home to rest & have small talk with each other but like i said he's been cranky lately due to work/dieting so we don't really talk much & it kinda hurts to feel a little ignored by him then when i try to get some of his attention he flinches.. i know he doesn't mean to be tht way & maybe i'm being self centered right now as i'm not in his position i don't really work due to having some health issues like gastric, asthma & anaemia tht i'm afraid will affect my pregnancy.. Anyways i really wanna try my best to support + understand him better but being preggo makes me have mood swings & cry easily over little things so i need advice on how to cope with this situation as i really don't wanna be self centered only caring about my feelings but not my soon to be husband as i love him so much 🥹❤️#advicepls #firsttimemom

Sharifah Nur Aidah

mama of one to my lil precious angel baby boy ❤️

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As you are pregnant, we do have imbalance hormones, mood changes and it is never the way we want it to be. In fact sometimes, we get carried away with our emotions and we feel sad about it. Perhaps, you want to send nice little messages for him and plan a date out once awhile to brighten his day up. I mean you mentioned he has been working 12 hrs and dieting. It could be all the tiredness that makes him stress and overwhelm. And as pregnancy mummy, we need to learn to control our emotions, be patience, think positive and always clear our mind/doubt away because that can make us feel down unknowingly and soon affect us/baby's health. Trust is the number one key to all relationship from being partner to married, if you don't have this then you ain't going anywhere. It is indeed difficult but you can try. Being the supportive pillar that he need during this time of hustling and dieting. But do advice him that dieting too much can cause health strain and it is not good. Perhaps just change the food intake or dietary changes to meet the ideal weight and body figure. Hope this helps and you both will be okay ❤

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