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Hi mga momsh! Medyo mahaba. Pasensya na. May anak na si hubby before we got married. He's 11 years old. He lives sa bahay ng inlaws ko (not with his mom) since ayaw din naman niya tumira either sa biological mom niya or samin. While me, hubby and our daughter stay in our own home. Etong si hubby nakasanayan na niya na before going home from work, dadaan muna sa bahay 'nila'(ng parents niya), he stays there for an hour or so everyday to do some chores and to see his son. Tama ba na minsan nakakaramdam ako ng inis? Na imbis na sa bahay namin siya dumerecho e nauuna pa siya umuwi dun? Forever na ba niya gagawin yun? To think na umuuwi din naman kami dun sa inlaws ko every weekends para maka bond din yung stepson ko and my inlaws. Nagiguilty ako kasi nakakaramdam ako ng inis. Should I talk to him or tatanggapin ko na lang? I need your insights. Thanks!

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I would say that what you feel right now is normal as a human. What you are feeling right now to be more direct is selfishness and jealousy😅😅. To be honest you have to learn how to accept the current set up. When you marry your husband it was a buy 1 take 1 deal na from the start kahit na di pa sa inyo nakatira ung 11years old son nya. You are a mother as well. I hope you know how badly that kid need a father as well especially iba na ang mga bata ngaun. lalo na pag kulang ang gabay ng magulang. Indi naman siguro kayo napapabayaan ng asawa mo. Kakarampot na oras nya ipagdadamot mo pa ba sa anak nya? Sometimes jealousy and selfishness make us blind to see how lucky we are and see the good side of everything. Learn how to unlearn that emotion kasi that can ruin your relationship with your husband. And for crying out loud. His your step son, please act as his second mother and spend time para mas lumapit loob nya sayo and learn to trust you. "Offer him your family" That way he could feel na he belongs to your family and that he is not alone. Parents should be selfless. I hope this makes sense😊

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5y ago

haha.. thanks. I'll follow you back sis 😉