I am in this situation too and I don't know what to do. My baby boy is about 1 yr old and is very difficult to bring him around. I do have the impression that my mil fil wants to bring baby all over his relative house (usually every yr we will go around visiting) to 'show' their grandson and mind you my mil side only she have 13 siblings let alone to mention my husband's 20++ cousins generation.
Not that we are viewing every household but I find that Even going 3-4 is very tough especially when baby need to sleep.
But, I will still go ahead with their plans and see if along the way if baby cranky then I will bring him home.
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