What Should I Do?
Me and my husband are under going divorce now. It's our first cny with our baby. Should I bring baby back to his place during cny even his family hates me alot? Do I need to give my pil Angbao when our situation now like this?
Give is a respect. Divorce is between u and your husband. If they are in Singapore, u can bring the baby back, if oversea then need to think carefully. Don’t because of hate, don’t let the baby go close to the father side. I’m believe, they also love their own blood. We Love Child 👶🏻
So sad to hear tat u r going thru divorce now ... I will say it depends on u to make the choice ... (Gd & Bad) but watever make sure tis thoughts dun OVER STRESS U as ur CUTIE NEEDS U TO THE MAX & HAPPI CHINESE NEW YR TO U N UR CUTIE PIE
Don't think you have to give them angpao. He can bring the baby to his place if you're uncomfortable. Don't think you have to make yourself uncomfortable by going there
You don’t have to do anything you don’t like. Your husband can bring him if he cares to. You should surround yourself with your positive support network.
Up to you really, will your pil want to see their grandchild etc..? If not then not necessary. Do take care !!
Based on your description of the situation, I don’t think it’s necessary
Imho, you may consider to visit them
