Just thinking if I’m being too petty

Last week Friday I ask my sis in law to come over my house with my 2 nephews for steamboat as they just stay about 10mins walk away from us , and my mum even offered to go over and help her bring my nephews over since she is alone , but , she rejected cause she said the virus very bad so don’t wanna bring the kids out , ok understand . But den ! Last 2 days I heard from my dad that they are going back Malaysia as my sis in law is from Malaysia cause her father had not since my younger nephew since birth with he is like 2 mths, and u know what ? They hv to take plane and car ride as my sis in law place is far. I’m really pissed off . I ask you come my house steamboat cannot but u go back Malaysia can. When u hv to go airport which is quite dangerous for my 2 nephews also ? And she actually intend to go back on April btw. Am I’m being petty to be angry ?

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I think steamboat not that necessary but going to Malaysia to see elderly more necessary especially since they haven’t gone for some time and maybe the elders request or having some issue, so don’t judge. Just respect her choice.

6y ago

No , I don’t think it’s necessary if she is telling me that she is afraid of the virus when I asked her to come to my house , and I don’t it’s necessary to travel at this timing to the airport when both my nephew is is 1 year old and the other is less den 3 months old . She’s telling me she don’t want come my house cause the road to my house a lot of china ppl walk passed, she scared my nephew will get the virus when they walked over cause their immune system is low , but , she can go to changi airport when there is even MORE ppl. Which is not logical at all . And to add on the road to my house is open air , and less den 10mins walk . By keeping both my nephew at home with her windows and door closed I don’t think she is ‘protecting’ them .