Just thinking if I’m being too petty

Question

Last week Friday I ask my sis in law to come over my house with my 2 nephews for steamboat as they just stay about 10mins walk away from us , and my mum even offered to go over and help her bring my nephews over since she is alone , but , she rejected cause she said the virus very bad so don’t wanna bring the kids out , ok understand . But den ! Last 2 days I heard from my dad that they are going back Malaysia as my sis in law is from Malaysia cause her father had not since my younger nephew since birth with he is like 2 mths, and u know what ? They hv to take plane and car ride as my sis in law place is far.  I’m really pissed off . I ask you come my house steamboat cannot but u go back Malaysia can. When u hv to go airport which is quite dangerous for my 2 nephews also ? And she actually intend to go back on April btw. Am I’m being petty to be angry ?

Rae · Answer

Maybe she feel anxious about bringing or fetching her kids to anywhere. And thinking steamboat can eat at anytime?Since she’s going back to Malaysia in April. Is still ok if everything is more calm. But if still getting more serious they might delay? If now they are travelling to Malaysia, then yes more dangerous. You can ask her again before she’s going back to malaysia for a short trip.

M.e.l · Answer

Now is virus period i will prioritise which is more impt to minimise the chances of gg out. I will respect her choice. To me, elderly is impt. Cos they are old i dont knw when to see them again and since ur sil's parents stay very far frm her, as in not in Sg. But steamboat tbh can anytime arrange. Also, we dont encourage sharing food now to minimise the virus spread.