Intimacy during pregnancy

Ladies, do you and your husband still have sex during pregnancy? Since we found out about our pregnancy, we stopped altogether cause he’s afraid to hurt the baby, which I have reassured that it won’t happen. I even tried initiating sex but he would brush me aside. I guess what upsets me is that he watches porn, masturbates behind my back and yet wont even cuddle me like before. Must be my emotions but I feel like with this pregnancy, with the changes my body is going through. Not quite sure if he’ll even find me attractive post pregnancy. Even I don’t feel attractive myself. I don’t know if I’m the only soul who feels this lousy.. :(

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We did but not very often. As the pregnancy advances, it gets q uncomfortable too.. Moreover, husband was afraid of hurting the baby too. Once baby is out, you may be too exhausted to even think of sex... If you don’t like what your husband, talk to him about it?

5y ago

Tried speaking to him about it, but he just says “soon soon”.. :( At times I feel like I’m all alone in this. I even told him that it will be worst once baby arrives. All the more we wouldn’t have time for each other :( I’m afterall still human, I still do want to feel loved.