I'm feeling awful. I'm such a lousy mother. I snap at my son all the time even though i love him to bits! I lose my temper with both my kids. I wished i had more patience. My mental condition is NOT me. How can i ever explain that to anyone? My best is not enough.

Hey! I juz read an article saying tat, "dun expect things to go smoothly like wad u wanted cos babies and children do not have e same understanding like adults." They cant control themselves. (Tatz when we need to teach them e right behaviour). In e article, they said tat if u think of it in tiz way, u will less likely flare up at ur child. Eg.: U r feeding ur child. Instead of thinking tat he will eat nicely and dun mess up (ur expectations) , think: he is juz a kid. He will get dirty and messy. So when things really get bad, u wont feel angry at all. In simple terms, get rid of ur expectations towards ur child. :) I tried and it really works. If oni i can share e article here.. I cant find it anymore...!