TERMINATING MY PREGNANCY

I'm 20 weeks and 4 days and it's our anomaly scan today. We found out na may Amniotic Band Syndrome si baby. Natunaw yung brain and left hand nya because of too much Amniotic fluid. Di naman cause of genetics and there was nothing to do to prevent it. Even tho na maipanganak ok sya di ko maiiuwi because ilang oras lang mabuhuhay ang baby girl ko. I'm so sad and mas malungkot si hubby iyak sya ng iyak. He knows na di ako umiiyak infront of others, but di ko mapigilan when he started crying. So we decided to terminate my pregnancy on Monday. She's kicking rn while I'm crying :(( We already picked out a name and we started buying stuff for her :(( Ive prayed every night na sana maging healthy ,normal and safe si baby but I dont know what i did wrong. We took extra precautions pa nga :( Nakakalungkot ng sobra. I just wanna share and ask if gano katagal kaya ako mabubuntis ulit? I feel like I NEED to be pregnant again, I NEED to hold my baby kasi di ko makakaya yung lungkot. Btw I'm 21 and my hubby is 24. Edit: I already terminated my pregnancy mga mamsh :( it was hard pero atleast my baby girl is dancing in heaven with her grandaddy, no more pain. Thank you for all your comments, nakakaiyak I'm okay now physically but emotionally hindi pa, I always cry every night when I pray. I miss my active baby and my baby bump. We decided to call her Leilani ♡ it's a Hawaiian name means heavenly flower. I also decided na mag vacation muna sa pinas, para mawala lungkot ko. It'll be sad and painful seeing my healthy baby nephews but they'll make me feel better. Labyu mga mamsh, thank you all for being with me on this painful journey.

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😢 wag po kayo mag.alala my reason c God kung bakit di pa sya ibigay sa inyo..gaya ko I lost baby due to premature.. but God gave me another Baby and now Im 38 weeks and 4 days pregnant waiting for my Little Prince to arrived..I gave birth to my first Child last Feb 2019 and after 3 months I got pregnant😊 just dont lose hope..pray always bata ka pa mahaba pa ang panahon..😊😊

natakot tuloy ako, parang gusto ko na magpa.ultrasound para macheck c baby last na ultrasound kac sakin nun pang 12weekz preggy ako..ngayon kasi 22weeks preggy na ako..gusto ko sana pag 28weeks n ako magpa.ultz pero parang gusto ko na tuloi..haist pray lng ng pray para ky baby, 🙏my nangyayari pala talagang ganyan.. sending hugs sayu mommy at pakatatag po..🙏

Stay strong sis.. Im turning 22weeks pregnant this sunday. Everyday knkbhan ako everytime di ko xa nrramdaman.kea lage ko siya knkmusta sa tummy ko. Pg rmdam ko na gmgalaw siya.. Di ko na need mgworry. Ngaun ramdam ko lage mahaba tulog ni baby. Pg gusto ko ng matulog siya naman ng gising.. God will provide another blessing to you. Just wait for the right time.

Nakakatakot ako am 23weeks and 2days pa man.din at hnd pa nakapag ultrasound at naka bisita kay doc ulit dahil sa ecq. Don't worry po nasa heaven na po.c baby angel mo po. Kaya nyo po yan dasal at tiwala lang po. Mas maganda po after a year nalang po kau magbuntis ulit po. Para d na kau masyado stress po. Mag unwind mona po kau. God bless po

Sakin minsan lng sumipa peo visible na sya.. kaso nahihirapan ako huminga lalo na pag gabi.. excited narin.kme malaman gender ni baby hehehhe.. sana matapos na to. Kaso habang tumatagal tumataas narin mga positve kc

Stay strong po,, mhirap mg decide pg gnyan situation llo qng ngppramdm dn sau c bby hbng naiyak ka,, prang gusto dn nya lumaban kso ang problem pglabas nya qng my abnormalities xa s ktwan,, ms mhhirapan dn c bby,,,, pray n lng ntin n sana mg give ng sign c papa jesus qng ano dpt nyong mging desisyon

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Mommy hayaan mo nlang po muna sya maipanganak...pray lang po nang pray walang imposible kay god! Hindi po natin alam bka pag labas po nya ok po si baby.kung mawawala po sya si god ang may gusto nun..buhay pa po sya mommy...lumalaban po c baby mommy..sana po bigyan nyo po sya ng chance😭😭

MOMMY if i were u ituloy mo. hintyin mo nlang mailabas mo dya atleast ipramdam mo sknya in person pagmmhal nyo magasawa. mayakap man lang. alam ko mhirap naiyak nga ako sa post mo na to. kc sumisipa sya while u were crying. 😢 ituloy mo mommy pls. mkita nyo man lang sya kht ganyan ngyre sknya. 😪

Sinearch ko sya sa google nakakatakot nga sya ndi mo maeexplain paano sya nangyayare. Sorry for what happen and praying all the pain go away. Because of this i have learnt na sa next visit for ultrasound i should ask the doctor to check if there is ABS on my children. Thank u momshie for sharing

This could be the most painful thing na pwede mangyari sa atin 😭😭 hugs momsh!!! And prayers! Jeremiah 29:11 lagi. Everything happens for a reason and he has greater plans for you. Sending love for the bb girl. I know she'll be one of the most beautiful angel to guide you. Pray Lang!!

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Mommy di ba pwede na ipanganak mo na muna sya.. Hayaan na lang sya mawalan ng buhay ng nasa labas na ng tiyan kesa ng buhay pa sya sa loob ng tiyan mo.. At least you will get a chance to see her and hug her.. Grabe nalungkot ako basahin ang post na ito.. Di ko rin naiwasan maiyak.. 😔

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