I am a SAHM and nowadays times are so bad, job hopping is not that advisable either thus my husband sometimes said that he wished he dont work. Can see that he is really tired and feel heartpain for that. How can I motivate him show him my appreciation? It has been long I bought him something too as I am no longer working... Feel so helpless in this.

There are 5 ways of expressing love to your loved ones: receiving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service (devotion), and physical touch. Which ways does your partner like to receive love? You don't have to buy something or go out to motivate him. The simplest things could make his day - giving him a massage, cooking a nice meal, spending quality time with him - just chatting, etc. Stay positive and encouraging :)