I am a SAHM and nowadays times are so bad, job hopping is not that advisable either thus my husband sometimes said that he wished he dont work. Can see that he is really tired and feel heartpain for that. How can I motivate him show him my appreciation? It has been long I bought him something too as I am no longer working... Feel so helpless in this.

why don't you consider working yourself? Single income is a disaster waiting to happen. Too much load on both parties. 1 party have to manage the family and another have to provide for the family. Is totally 2 different spectrum and difficult for both parties to understand each other difficulties. Have 2 working income help load balance create a more happy family.