I am so piss off with my in law. Visit them today and they turn to my husband and say baby look exactly like you, and turn to me and say baby don't look like you at all. Wtf! Even if my baby don't look like me no need to tell me right in my face what. Seriously very annoying, feel like scolding back. I hold back and vent to my husband. They say why baby nv bring this and that? Why nv wear long pants? Why? Why? Why? Irritating to the max! I am a stay home mom, my in laws keep asking me why don't want work? Ask me to let my mother look after baby but my mother is working and they just ignore what I say. I holding back and I think I will give them back one day when I cannot hold anymore. Trying to be nice but end up what I get ? My husband nv care much but he say if I cannot take it just scold or say back. He will stand by me. But lucky I.not staying with them.

Hahahaha when people commented that my girl looks like my husband, I will usually tell them that she's already saving for her future plastic surgery. Now my MIL stop saying look like my husband and say look like me more liao 😂

Just answer their questions if they ask u .. I can understand, if we hold our anger our mood swings wil b hyper .. n we can’t concentrate on anything .. but just tel them politely , they r ready to criticise u but ignore .. we can’t argue with such ppl .. tc

To all parents complaining about their in-laws, remember that one day, if u r fortunate enough, u will become an in-law as well. Try to be the better person. Don't let the bitterness fester within else it will only bred bitterness into the next generation.

Just tell them you are your baby’s mother and don’t question you but they can give you advise . This might sound a bit rude but be very firm on this and I believe they will understand so try to cushion it while bringing that message across .

Some people just couldn't control their mouths so why bother about what they say? I know it's hard but just smile and ignore what they say the next time! I always reply my MIL with a okay, and continue to do what I'm supposed to do. Lol

Hahaha.. Sound familiar. Sometimes I just want to ask her "do you want to see my baby time photo?" "You think my mom so free? Why she has to take care of your grandchild while you goyang kaki at home"

Haha if is me i would reply back: u are lucky your grandchild look like your husband or else something must be wrong! For once and for all, they will shut e f up

Hahaha im so lucky my boy looks 80% like me. But still, mil commented he look like my husband. Then i just flatly said eh, no he looks like me.. or rather looks like my mum lol.

So annoyed w this kind of inlaws, i oso have similar inlaws and they even take away my baby tgt w my husband. now im at my parents' hse instead without my baby. haha.

I feeling offended too becoz my in-law everything will said like their side. But I replied “my baby be himself not anyone else”. Then they not mentioned anymore.