I am new to hiring a helper, mainly to help out with my LO.. how should I arrange at meal time esp when eating out? Should I eat first, or let my helper eat first? I reckon that she should eat first, since she is eating faster than me.. while I take care of LO.. also I can have a longer time to eat.. otherwise if I eat first, she has to wait on a long time to eat.. but my hubby find it werid to eat with her first..