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Hello! I just need to share this to vent. My partner and I are currently in a not so long distance relationship. Kailangan ko magstay with my parents sa province kasi I'm 38 weeks pregnant while he's in Taguig working his ass off. We're not married, pero he's supporting me naman financially..no major problems when it comes to financial support (i guess). Before magChristmas nagpaalam sya sa akin na uuwi sila ng Aurora ng kapatid nya para doon magcelebrate. I agreed kasi hindi naman yung palagi. When he got there things started to go south.. madalang sya magupdate kasi mahina "daw" ang signal doon at walang wifi since bundok. I said ok, important is may message from him at least once or twice a day. After Christmas.. naging super needy ako. Sanay kasi ako na lagi kami nagvivideo call and stuff. He never sent pictures btw or posts anything sa socmed which is very him naman. I always let him know of what im doing pero Mas naging madalang ang responses nya,I felt like something is odd so i asked him if he's still in Aurora he said yes at New year pa ang balik nya. So naisip ko baka mahina lang talaga reception. Medyo naiinip kasi ako sa paglabas ni baby kaya lagi ko sinasabihan partner ko at lagi ko syang gustong kausap nga. Tonight.. I came across his profile sa socmed to look at his old photos lang. I accidentally clicked a profile of his college friend..who lives in manila. Apparently, my partner is with them. Parang way ni universe un to confirm my gut feel.. Hindi ko alam anong motive at need nya magsinungaling so I asked him.. pero no reply pa. I just needed to vent kasi its a big WHY for me. Masyado ko ba sya naoobliga because of my pregnancy kaya he needed some time for himself without me knowing? Is he cheating? Questions like that are playing in my head.. Im still waiting for his response. Please dont be so quick to judge gusto ko lang ilabas sama ng loob ko kasi ayaw ko maapektuhan si baby ko sa loob. 😔 Thank you for reading my post. Your insights are welcome and very much appreciated as well.

Anonymous

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Red flag🚩 Nalulungkot ako sa mga mommy na ganito ang pinagdadaanan habang buntis or even after manganak. Kasi yung asawa ko lahat ng makakabuti para sa amin, (we have 4 kids) ginagawa niya. Mii, kung iniisip mo na kung masyado mo ba siyang naoobliga kasi buntis ka? Unfair sayo yun. Isipin mo, ikaw na nga ang nagdadala ng anak nio tapos ganyan siya? Confront him at sabihin ng nararamdaman mo. Kung mahal ka talaga niya, maiintindihan ka niya. Wag mong tanggapin reasons na, napepressure siya at masyado siyang naoobliga if ever ganun ang reasons niya. Dapat ang buntis hindi nasstress. Ginawa nio pareho ang bata, hindi lang ikaw.

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Lying is considered as cheating. Imagine he's spending his holidays with his colleagues kesa sa inyo? Pagiging needy mo sakanya is normal lalo na at buntis ka. Sa totoo lang, nakaka stress maging Nanay tapos masstress ka sa Tatay na pasaway. Need nyo po mag usap, ask him bakit nya gnawa yun sayo? Ano reason? Ask him na din kung may iba ba?

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Anonymous

2y ago

i did. ang reason nya ay dahil sasaglit lng sya ng manila to do some paperwork..pero bblik dn daw sa province. walang concrete na reason na bnigay sakin as to why he did that. I even confronted him kung may iba, at kung talaga ba na gusto nya kaming makasama ng anak nya.. wala naman daw iba at yes ang sagot sa latter. :(

Dati may kutob ako. Tama ung kutob ko nag beer house si hubby ko noon. Bf ko pa lang nmn sya noon. Pero napatunayan ko na tama ang mga kutob ng mga babae. .. Alam natn kung nag sisinungaling partner natin

Anonymous

2y ago

yes. mas trustworthy ang instincts natin kesa sa kanila. hindi lang tayo basta nagooverthink lang 😔

you are 38 weeks pregnant any moment pwde ka na manganak, hindi bat mas kailangan mo siya. Bakit mas pinili niya mag celebrate sa ibang lugar imbes na samahan ka. 🥲

Anonymous

2y ago

Medyo caught off guard nga ako nung nagpaalam sya kaya I allowed him.. may kasama naman ako dito naisip ko.. and yun nga minsan lang naman. Sana pala mas naging assertive ako at firm no ang answer. 🥺

Red flag yan. May kutob na tayo kapag ganyan.. Ilang oras o minuto lang ang hubby ko na alam ko mag oonline na sya. May kutob na ako nun.

lying is cheating sis.. trust your instinct.. malapit ka na manganak he should spend his whole vacation with you..

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Anonymous

2y ago

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