Sexless marriage

I am in sexless marriage. My husband saw my entire process of giving birth and never want to have sex with me in 5 months. Finally did it and now he refused again. His excuse is TIRED. I dont know but I thought guy supposed to have this needs. But he doesnt. I am so much in pain, having this marriage without more interaction other than a kiss. Talked to him what I felt and he doesnt really care. ?

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I'd say that your husband probably has the trauma of watching you give birth, and that's not something easy to get by - there are husbands/boyfriends who faint or vomit while their partner gave birth so ... give him some time :) It could also be that he doesn't want you to go through the same thing again (at least, anytime soon) so he doesn't want to take the chance - you could think of it as him being considerate too! If he says he's tired, don't get upset or turn away - just snuggle together with him and things will happen if they're meant to ;)

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