Tantrum

I have baby girl 2 years 3 months. Once in a day, everyday, she will have big tantrum. Doesn’t want clean poopoo, doesn’t want go to shower, after taking a nap, or if something she do is not exactly like want she want. Is this normal ? What can i do to reduce the tantrum ? When her tantrum come, she will throw away anything in front of her, pinching and biting people who try to persuade her. I also got scared sometimes she do that.