I am 29 years old with a 1 year old kid. The problem is that I put on upto 22 kgs during pregnancy and haven't lost much weight ever since. My husband earlier used to comment and urge me to join a gym etc, but now he has even stopped that. Obviously he finds me unattractive and is not turned on by me. we have hardly had any sex since the birth of our kid and recently my husband has shifted into the spare bedroom. I too don't feel like dressing up or going out. I feel like my marriage will end soon. What do I do?

all you need to do is get up, take some control of your life and work towards it. if you sit and keep thinking of how your marriage is going to fall apart because of your excess weight, then unfortunately, no one can help you. i have lost 27 kgs in 2 years of my second baby's birth, and all through natural and easy ways. please understand that you do not have to make a drastic change in life or slog yourself off in the gym to get fit. just concentrate on some form of daily exercise, a healthy and disciplined eating routine, good sleep and lots of water and also as less stress as possible. once you make these changes, you'll start losing weight and be able to maintain it as well.