My husband recently moved to China for work for 2 years and 2 weeks into his relocation, he cheated on me. I found out about the affair 2 months later and he was apologetic and confirmed he has ended it. However, he refused to move back to SG as he really likes his job and value the career opportunities. He is though willing to come back every alternate weekend to spend time with the family. Apart from feeling betrayed, I also feel that he doesn't prioritize the family since he chose to stay in China and not come back to work things out with me. Should I cont' to stay in this marriage? Am I wrong to hope/expect him to come back completely in order to save the marriage? *long story which is hard to explain here but I can't move to China... or at least I can't move this current moment...

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I'm sorry to hear that you have to be going through this. It is not wrong for you to feel that he should return, neither would it be wrong for him to prioritise work. I guess it all depends, on each individuals priority in life? Just like everyone's needs and wants are different too. Most importantly whatever decision you make, if it feels at mind and heart feels at peace. Then I would say go for it. Hope you would feel better soon. Give it your all so that you won't have a chance to regret. You can only change what is within your control. Take care mummy.

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Home Random Talk husband recently moved china work 2 years 2 weeks into relocation cheated i found out about affair 2 months later was apologetic confirmed has ended however refused move back sg really likes job value career opportunities though willing come back every alternate weekend spend time with family apart from feeling betrayed i feel that doesnt prioritize family since chose stay in china not come back work things out with should i cont stay in marriage