My hubby & me cannot agreed on how many kids to stop, he want 3, i only want 2 at maximum. I tried communicate and explained to him, as our financial and my emotional not allow we have more than 2 kids. I will like to know the best contraceptive method that effective and won't affect my breastmilk supply... and best how to convince him !

The problem he is a quite hands on daddy. But he alr 40 and I'm in mid 30s, I really no energy to chase and I don't want to keep nagging/ shouting lo, but i think i can't control when too much kids to discipline, as my kids age gap is small. Btw i read ppl on copper IUD still got alot of accident and hormonal IUD same with other hormonal precautions will cause some mother breastmilk drop. I don't dare take the risk as my #1 I'm a just enough supply mum. .