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It is pretty common for your husband to ask for your attention. I am sure he wants to involve you in many parts of his life as you are his significant other. While that may be the case if you think it is eating up into your time that you have set aside for other activities, you should talk to him about it. Explain to him what other tasks you have to complete, these could be tasks ranging from your work, your time with your girlfriends or even time you spend for self growth (yoga classes, learning a new skill, etc.) That way he knows what you are doing and when to draw the line to stop demanding for your attention.
A wise person once said, 'Boys will be boys.' So it's normal to have your husband act like a child sometimes, looking for your attention. My suggestion is to give him as much as possible, but that does not mean you do not dedicate personal time to yourself. If you feel the situation is going out of hand, you can tell him tell him off. He needs to grow up someday.
My mum always told me... There are 'boys' and then there is a 'Man Child'... So basically there aren't any 'MEN'.. If your 'Man Child' is constantly asking for attention, well he's just being himself... Like a child cater to him, pamper him and whack him a bit too.. Men too love attention and no harm reinforcing it ...:)
I'd make more time for him. Even if I can't see why he feels this way. I'll allow him to explain himself then we can work on a compromise. If he believes I'm working too hard then I'll make more of an effort. But if he's being unreasonable, I'll tell him with love why he shouldn't be demanding.
Maybe you are too busy with anything you do. You need to spend more quality time with him, try to make a schedule to have fun like 1 or 2 days a week. As a man sometimes i don't realize that i have annoyed my wife just because I feel lonely. The most important thing is communication.
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Possibly reasons could be a underlying problem bugging him and he needs support. Would be great to ask him if he's having any issues at work or any other aspects of his life.
At times, my husband doesn't want any attention. Other times, he behaves worst then the kids yearning for attention.
Try to assess yourself. Perhaps he really wants more time with you, so make some catching up with your husband,
seeing this post, i am a little jealous. If only my husband seeks my attention. he don't even bother.