Stressed

I do indeed have my own house. But because my wife just gave birth to our 2nd princess earlier this month, bo bian need stay at in laws house for confinement. If i too long never go back, wife will sing song again. To be honest, they have been treating me fairly good. Just that they way they express it is not very....... unacceptable to me. And i disagree the way they educate my kids. (Case: my first born fell down and started crying, they overly comfort her and beat the floor saying the signature 地板坏蛋)... Haiz.... I've had 1 major argument with them. To the point whr i took my first born and ran back to my house. Leaving my wife there. Of course, after everything settled down, i went back to say sorry. Now my mentality is 'not my house, not my kid'... And i have communicate this to my wife and in laws. Now they tone down liao.

😂 Confinement no choice lah! During my confinement I also staying at my mum place but my husband say nothing. After confinement move back home after one month back to my mum place. My husband likes staying with my parents due to night he will peaceful sleep until morning and dinner my mum cook for sure. Due to my child still young I rarely cook because after work we are tired. To be honest I don't know my husband OK with my side anot but frankly speaking his side as long don't disturb us I'm fine with it.

Shift out... I’m not staying with in laws but they are taking care of baby while me and hubs go to work. Already buay tahan........ can’t imagine how u feel staying with them

Ya this is so difficult, you need to talk to your partner about this. The only way is to get your own house

Many ppl would suggest not to stay with them. But that depends on your in law character also.

Just tune out. Download a meditation app like calm. Hahaha. That’s what I do

living with my in laws too.. terrible, just waiting for my house in 2023....

I tahan for 3 years plus and I'm glad i have my own house now. 😂

Talk to your spouse and try to move out if possible

Get your own place asap!! I did that!! Phew!