Stressed

I do indeed have my own house. But because my wife just gave birth to our 2nd princess earlier this month, bo bian need stay at in laws house for confinement. If i too long never go back, wife will sing song again. To be honest, they have been treating me fairly good. Just that they way they express it is not very....... unacceptable to me. And i disagree the way they educate my kids. (Case: my first born fell down and started crying, they overly comfort her and beat the floor saying the signature 地板坏蛋)... Haiz.... I've had 1 major argument with them. To the point whr i took my first born and ran back to my house. Leaving my wife there. Of course, after everything settled down, i went back to say sorry. Now my mentality is 'not my house, not my kid'... And i have communicate this to my wife and in laws. Now they tone down liao.