How would you react if you have an unplanned pregnancy even when you are married?

it will take time for u to get used to the idea. it is ok to panic and worry. trust that when the baby comes, u will be glad of it. afterwhich you will not be able to imagine a life without him/her. a 31 yr old married friend once told me that she feels that she is not ready for a child. i told her that she will never be ready. we will only be ready after we have a child.