How do you deal with an overly hot tempered spouse?

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Kapag medyo mainit ang ulo ni hubby, hindi ko na sya sinasabayan. Pareho kasi kaming sasabog. Ang tendency, we're just going to have an endless debate. Baka lalo pa kami magkasakitan ng salita. Better na tumahimik nalang kami at kumalma pareho then usap ulit pag ok na kami. By the way, etong article na 'to ang isa sa the best na article na nabasa ko about kung paano mag-deal sa mga hot-tempered na asawa. :D https://ph.theasianparent.com/ways-to-deal-with-a-short-tempered-spouse/

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I'm actually the hot tempered one in my marriage, but honestly, my wife has her moments. For me, I think it's all about patience. I always try to take the adage, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all" as seriously as possible. I use that mentality to calm down and address the situation later with a cooler, calmer head. 9/10 times, that leads to me apologizing and us resolving any temper related issues.

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I keep silent na lang muna until he has vented all his emotions. Mas lalong humahaba argument pag sasagot pa ako sa kanya although minsan parang hindi natin kaya magtimpi, but it really needs a lot of practice. I've tried it several times and ung exchange of words just didn't work. It just aggravates the situation.

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depende. my partner was hot tempered. patient lang nung una pero when he hit me once, natakot na ako para sa amin ni baby so we left.

I don't want to be sound corny or kj but I pray for more patience for both of us.