I agree with Ling, you have to sit him (and his brother) down and talk to him about helping out with the housework. Tell him that housework isn't easy and it is a lot to do for one person. Maybe try getting him to help out with smaller tasks first like folding his own laundry, or wiping table top surfaces, etc. As for his brother, talk to your husband and see if you guys can at least get him to flush after himself. If you guys are staying together, I think he should be contributing towards doing housework or something. As for a job, maybe you can try looking for a part time job first for now. Part time jobs are slightly easier to find and gives you that flexibility in terms of working hours. Good luck!
If it was me, then all dont do lo see who can tarhan. Otherwise sit him down and talk to him. Split the roles. Sometimes men are like babies, they need to be told what to do specifically. I find men have no initiative in doing household chores. And they are really bad at it. I guess its just a men system.
I did told him that I need help but he said that I am not working why complain..ah ya to him I am useless while his bro is not la sigh.. I have seen my guy friends doing housework willingly as they told me that it's too much for a wife to handle on top of looking after kids.while him throw my girl aside to play iPad and he busy with his car group chat
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